{"id":4602,"date":"2025-03-21T01:16:20","date_gmt":"2025-03-21T01:16:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/?p=4602"},"modified":"2025-03-21T01:16:20","modified_gmt":"2025-03-21T01:16:20","slug":"messenger-euphoria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/2025\/03\/21\/messenger-euphoria\/","title":{"rendered":"Messenger Euphoria"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I believe strongly in not just &#8216;not blaming the messenger&#8217;, but in trying to reward them.  <\/p>\n<p>But what if there&#8217;s a level beyond that; &#8220;Messenger Euphoria&#8221;[1]?<\/p>\n<p>Getting your organization to a state where people prefer to bring problems to the table, instead of status, or even solutions.<\/p>\n<p>In general, large organizations have some sort of status reporting to executives (or senior leadership).  Even the most helpful executives will generally say something like:<br \/>\n&#8211; &#8220;What steps have you taken so far?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8211; &#8220;What specifically do you want me to do to help you solve your problem?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This puts a significant onus on the reporter to:<br \/>\n&#8211; Be very organized in their presentation and planning<br \/>\n&#8211; Think specifically about what an executive can and cannot do (and what they are likely to do or not)<br \/>\n&#8211; (Basically, to have solved 90% of the problem before they get there)<\/p>\n<p>While this can be helpful, to help the reporter organize their thoughts and actions (and solve problems once a week, just before status is due), but when a person is overwhelmed, or discouraged, or just doesn&#8217;t know what to do next, this can be counterproductive, and just one more barrier, requiring more activation energy for them to overcome, to get the help they need.<\/p>\n<p>How do we set up a system which rewards bringing problems to the table over status or solutions?  I&#8217;ve had some success with saying &#8216;I get joy out of answering questions and helping people&#8217;, but that&#8217;s small scale and perhaps only very personally applicable to me.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have good general solutions yet.  But at least I now have an idea, a taste of what I want.<\/p>\n<p>[1] Image of Calvin, of Calvin &#038; Hobbes, demanding euphoria.<\/p>\n<p>Note: The original inspiration came from hbomberguy&#8217;s dk64 stream, where he talked about &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/simple.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Gender_euphoria\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Gender Euphoria<\/a>&#8220;, where an absence of Gender Dysphoria is not enough, that one wants to live in a way that is joyful.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I believe strongly in not just &#8216;not blaming the messenger&#8217;, but in trying to reward them. But what if there&#8217;s a level beyond that; &#8220;Messenger Euphoria&#8221;[1]? Getting your organization to a state where people prefer to bring problems to the table, instead of status, or even solutions. In general, large organizations have some sort of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/2025\/03\/21\/messenger-euphoria\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Messenger Euphoria<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4602"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4602"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4602\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4603,"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4602\/revisions\/4603"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4602"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4602"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nayrb.org\/~blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4602"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}